My First Home: What I Thought I Wanted, vs. What I Got

It took 6 months to find my new home, 45 days to close, and now that I’m moved in, it’s time to take a look back at the process as a whole. I’ve shared the juicy details and frustrations of starting the search, setting my budgetfinding my lender, appraisal drama, and even the letter I sent to the seller. But now that everything’s said and done, I’m just so damn happy to call this place home.

So, the joy of being a first-time home-owner and first-time landlord aside, it’s time to reflect on how my search evolved over time.

The basics:

I went into this process looking for a 2BR (bedroom) 2BA (bath) that kept me within a half hour from my office. It had to have a washer dryer and had to be rentable.

I ended up buying a 3BR 2.5BA (what-what) just a bit further from my office – my new commute takes 40 minutes in rush hour, instead of the 30 I was anticipating. The tradeoff, however, yields an extra bedroom and a sweet renter setup.

It has all the bells and whistles I knew I wanted. Washer dryer, two parking spaces, and it’s in a safer location than I was originally anticipating.

The finances:

Here’s a big difference. I’ll be honest, I went above my anticipated budget of 365K for a 2BR, and instead opted for 427K for the 3BR. While this raises my monthly housing costs, it also drastically increases the rent I can take in for the additional two bedrooms. I was planning on paying about $2000-2400 for my monthly mortgage, insurance, property taxes, HOA dues, and PMI, but I’m looking at monthly payments of about $2800 all in.

That said, 3BRs in the area rent for over $3300, so each rental bedroom can easily go for over $1000 of monthly rent in the area. Because I’ll be living with a close friend, I’m charging her about $1400, as she’ll be taking one extra bedroom and converting the other into an office, which she and I will split. This brings my actual monthly costs to $1400 for a much better place than I’d ever lived.

If I find another roommate, with whom we both want to live, we’d remove the office, rent the third bedroom, and my monthly costs would drop to less than $900 for housing. Insane, for someone who’s rented in Los Angeles and could never find a 1BR close enough to work for less than $1500 a month.

Long-term, when I convert it to a full rental, I’m hoping I’ll have the same luck as the last owner. He’d had the place rented out to engineers in the area, consistently, for upwards of 8 years before selling. Fingers crossed that my future renters are so consistent!

The location:

I’ve been all over the place these past few months. Originally I was looking in the Culver City and Inglewood areas. Culver City is way out of my price range, but Fox Hills (the South West corner of Culver City) had a few 2BRs that I looked at – all in the 450-500K range. I told myself I’d consider these if they were amazing, but the rent I could pull in just didn’t justify the costs.

I looked in the Northwest corner of Inglewood, and loved some of the places I found. They were in my price range, in a relatively good neighborhood, but none of them was right – what I mean is, maybe they had a great location, but only 1.5 bathrooms. Not the best situation for living with a renter… and if I wanted to weigh the pros and cons overnight, poof. The place was already off the market.

After having the rug pulled out from under me on a few places, I expanded my search out of pure frustration. I’m so glad I did! I started to look in Gardena and neighboring areas, which eventually led me to my new home!


So, I didn’t get what I was picturing. I got something much better, with pros and cons that come from that. Yay: extra rentable bedroom! Boo: higher mortgage payments. All in all, I think it was the best choice for a long-term play. Here’s to hoping that I’m right!

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5 thoughts on “My First Home: What I Thought I Wanted, vs. What I Got

  1. Sweet! I totally understand the logic for buying the more expensive home. If I were you, I would focus on paying down some of the mortgage with the extra free cash due to renting. Then in a few years, at least 2 due to tax benefits, then refinance and make it a complete rental. Maybe decrease your monthly payment to $2,000 then rent it for $3500 (just an example) and you’ll clean more per month and have enough to put away for Cap EX and other maintenance.

    Congrats on putting yourself in a good financial position. I wish more people would follow this path. Are you a BiggerPockets fan?

    • Thank you – refinancing in 2 years is great advice! My current game plan is to lob that cash at the balance to remove the PMI, but I’ve been debating whether to continue once I hit that 20%, or start moving it into the stock market. I like the idea of reducing the monthly payments to something more cashflow friendly, though!

      And yes – I’ve been following BiggerPockets for a while, too!

      • I’d say 20% is a good idea. That way you reduce principal a decent amount and eliminate PMI payments. That would create a good amount of cash flow!

        And I love BiggerPockets as well. Brandon Turner and Scott Trench are AWESOME!

  2. Being able to have a renter sounds like it justifies the increased spending and that extra bedroom will likely help with resale in the future…I’d say you made the right call.
    When I was looking for my first home I had a very specific area to look in because I wanted a short commute. For this I had to be willing to compromise on square footage and also be ok with buying an older home. Luckily it all worked out and I love my home, and especially the neighbourhood.
    PS. This is my first time on your site and I love your layout/theme!

    • I’m hoping it’s the right call 🙂 I’ll know with time. I love the idea of a sweet older home closer to work, but was priced out of the areas I work in… otherwise I probably would have tried for the same!

      Also, thank you 🙂

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